1. Eye Contact
2. Finding Common Ground
3. Physical Contact
1. Eye Contact
2. Finding Common Ground
3. Physical Contact
1. Dress to Feel your Best
2. Play to Your Strengths
3. Be Honest and Open
1. Harry Winston
3. Van Cleef Arpels
If you have a first-time escort date on your calendar, it’s only reasonable that you would want to make a great first impression, because as the saying goes, “first impressions last!” The first thing that your escort date is going to notice about you is the way that you dress, so you want to make sure that you dress appropriately and in a way that show off your best assets.
First, you need to make sure that you dress appropriately for the setting of your first escort date. If you are going out to a nice restaurant, make sure that you dress in formal clothes. A nice suit and tie always makes for a great outfit, and it shows that you are a gentleman of good breeding and taste. On the other hand, if you are meeting in a less formal setting, at a café or bar for example, showing up in a smart-casual outfit (nice slacks, a button down shirt, good shoes) is a good choice. Remember, there is such a thing as being over- or under-dressed, so make sure that you are pairing the right outfit with the occasion.
Second, make sure that what you are wearing complements your figure and your assets. Look for clothes that fit you well and are comfortable; nothing too tight or too loose. Look for colors that go well with your physical attributes: black is very slimming, white looks clean and presentable, and gray is quiet and elegant. If you want to take things a step further, you can even match your skin tone and eye color! For example, if you have blue eyes, why not match it with a shirt that has the same shade?
Whether it’s your first date, or the regular date night that you have with your partner, you would definitely want to make sure that you both have a great time with fun date ideas.
After all, dates have a lot of potential, and in many cases, they can make or break the rest of your time with the person that you’re on a date with, so you better make sure that you bring your A-game!
Now, movies and good food are all well and good, but they can get pretty boring and repetitive quickly.
If you’ve been on more than a few dates with a person, falling into a repetitive rut can be easy, and dates can even become bothersome. So, here are some unique date ideas you might want to try:
Zoos are a great place to bring your date, especially if they love animals, but even people who aren’t really animal lovers often find that an occasional trip to the zoo is exciting and fun.
There’s just something about seeing exotic animals that can bring people closer, especially since you would be able to see a spark of excitement in their eyes.
Flea markets are a pretty common event anywhere, but in the major cities, they often turn into fun treasure hunts! You can find a lot of unique and exciting hidden gems, as long as you have the patience to sift through all the sundry items.
Larger flea markets often have food and drink booths as well, so you and your date can grab some refreshments through the day.
Bring out the competitive kids in you and your date and visit the nearest arcade! Whether it’s a basketball game or a claw machine, you can make a little contest out of it. Loser has to buy dinner?
Botanical gardens are a great and inexpensive choice for days with bright skies and a cool, inviting weather. The best times to go are early in the morning, or late in the afternoon.
For a memorable and dazzling first date, the dark and cool atmosphere of a planetarium makes for a great choice. You can see the majestic view of our galaxy and beyond, and even hold hands for a little romance in the dark.
The best thing about art galleries is that there are so many different types to choose from, whether you’re in the mood for some classic art, modern art, or even installation art: there is just something for everyone! For bonus points, it’s a great way to break the ice, and find out more about your date’s interests.
Now this might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but if you and your date want something a little bit different and adventurous, go out for a night at your nearest karaoke bar and choose a song for each other.
Trampoline parks are becoming more and more popular because they are fun, energizing, and adults feel like kids again! Imagine bouncing into a huge foam pit, or finally making that basketball dunk (with a little help from the trampoline, of course).
If you’re in a place where there is a regular state fair, make sure to grab your date and spend the day there. Sometimes, all you need in life are some cheap junk food, corny music, dizzying rides, and fairway games.
Bowling lanes are a great place for a first date: they’re fun, casual, and you don’t really need a lot to impress your date.
Sure, a strike or two would be amazing, but even just enjoying each other’s company at the lanes would make for a fun date.
If your date loves going to the zoo, they will also love a trip to the local aquarium, where they can come face to face with marine animals that they would never see on a regular day.
Imagine being up close and personal with animals like jellyfish, sharks, sting rays, and loads of tropical fish!
If city life is becoming too hectic and stressful, there’s nothing like retreating to nature for some well-deserved rest and relaxation. Most cities have parks with nature trails where you can feel like you and your date are the only ones in nature.
Bring out the inner chef in you, and impress your date with your cooking skills! There are many cooking classes offered, and you can even learn how to make dinners at home a little bit more elegant and delicious.
If the weather is nice, why not pack up a huge picnic basket and have an impromptu picnic with your date? You can spend the day in each other’s company, just watching people walk by.
Mini-golf is a great compromise for couples because it combines the love for golf with something your partner can also enjoy.
Sometimes, the best way to enjoy a night out together is by just listening to music, so head to your nearest jazz bar and order a couple of drinks. Now, you’re ready to be serenaded for the rest of the night.
A little adrenaline never hurt a couple, and if you need some spice back in your relationship, why not go and race each other at your local kart track?
Most parks have a duck pond, and there are going to be some hungry ducks there! Make sure that your park allows duck feeding, and if it does, get some bread, and sit down your date to watch the cute ducks feed.
This date is perfect for couples who can’t live without a bottle of red or white during dinner time. Most wine tastings also include a tour of the vineyards, and pro tips from wine masters.
Sometimes, all you need to release some stress is a long drive with your partner. Don’t have a destination in mind; just hop in the car and let the drive take you where it will! You might be surprised where you end up going!
This is perfect for couples who have a competitive streak with a dash of adrenaline junkie. Try to see who can climb the highest and the fastest!
Become more in sync with your partner, and take a dance class together. If you want to ramp up the romance, go for the Latin dances, where there is a dash of sultry mixed in. You do know what they say about good dancers and how they perform in the bedroom!
If you live in or near a bay area, why not book a quick harbor cruise for you and your date? There’s always something soothing about being able to get away from the city, and enjoy drink together on the open water.
Get your creative juices flowing, and take an art class together! Whether you’re learning how to paint, sculpt, or even mold pottery, couples who take art classes together often find that they become closer at the end of the class.
Couples who sweat together stay together! There are a lot of indoor sports for you to try, whether it’s badminton, table tennis, or even a spinning class.
It’s not always about the adrenaline rush; a dash of Zen and calm works wonders for many relationships. Find a meditation class, and take it together with your partner. Find your centers, together.
This might seem like something you might rather do with your mates, but being out in bars with your date can loosen you up with each other and forge even stronger bonds!
If you’re really comfortable with each other, why not check out other people and ask each other if they find those people attractive?
This is often different from movie night, because many indie film screenings show foreign or little-known films. This is a great way to start a conversation during a date.
Now this is more for couples who have been together for a long time, and want to share something permanent and tangible with their partner. A tattoo that means something to the both of you will help cement your relationship.
For the truly adventurous and daring, board a bus going to place you have never heard of, with only a small rucksack containing essentials like clothes, money, and your phone. Explore the world and find out more about each other at the same time!
Everyone has his own experiences unique from everyone else. This is very true especially with the dating game. While so many people are enjoying their dating life, there are also many who are not as satisfied as they hoped to be.
Whether or not you are among these not-so fortunate, it would still be a great idea to spice up your dating game. A few tweaking in your approaches, as well as mind set with regards to the dating game, can add life to your whole dating experience.
Here are some New Year’s dating resolutions you can consider applying in your game:
It is said that if you will aim at nothing, you will surely hit it. This is true in almost everything we do including dating.
Most people simply go through the motion of going out and meeting people without even thinking about what they really want out of their whole dating life.
This year, it would really be best to take a serious look at the ‘why’ of your dating life. Why do you go on a date? Are you looking for a lifetime partner or simply just out to meet people and make friends.
Also, it would be best to set goals that are attainable. Have you been failing in your dating life because you are so adamant to find your lifetime partner? If so, why not try to look for someone you can be comfortable with.
Someone you can be friends with; and then try to see if a romantic relationship is possible along the way. This would release some of the pressures you put on yourself and ultimately help you find the right person.
If you think about it, dating is very much similar to hunting a job. When you look for a job, you make sure to use every avenue available for you to find the right job.
You go through the job-posting sites at the internet, newspapers, and even talk to old friends who may know some job openings.
If you have a goal to finally meet the right one for you, then it would be a good idea to check out dating avenues other than the usual bar meetups.
You can try creating an account on online dating sites, try speed dating, and even have some of your friends introduce you to someone. On top of all that, never limit yourself.
Try dating two or three ladies, this would really give you a bigger chance to find the one you can be comfortable with.
It is true that the whole dating can be demanding and entails a lot of planning, diversifying, and of course pressure, both from yourself and others.
However, if you really look at it, dating is simply a mean to meet and know people and the best way to go through that is to really enjoy and have fun.
This is important because as you go through the dating game you will encounter amazing dates and also those that are not so good ones.
If you are enjoying the whole dating game with its ups and downs, you can easily look at each experience and learn from each.
There are so many other things you can add to spice up your dating life. However, these three are already a good start and would sure to see you through! Plan, broaden, enjoy!