A first outing with your male date might be a bit of a head-scratcher if you’re wondering whether or not your date likes you, and if you’re picking up on the right cues. After all, no one wants to make a fool of themselves and make a move because they read the situation wrong.
While there’s no foolproof way of finding out whether or not a guy likes you, there are some clues that you can take into account to find out if you should consider taking the relationship to the next level:
1. Eye Contact
If a guy likes you, eye contact is one of the things that you would notice would increase between the two of you. Your male date will find ways to always make eye contact, and keep the eye contact as long as possible, especially during conversation. They literally won’t be able to keep their eyes off of you!
2. Finding Common Ground
Another way that men let their date know that they are interested is by trying to find common ground between the two of you, whether it’s your interests, goals, hobbies, or even past experiences. Finding common ground between the two of you allows a deeper, more intimate connection to be built, and it’s also a significant factor of whether or not a relationship would be possible in the future.
3. Physical Contact
Physical contact is one of the ways that many guys show their interest with their date. Some men are quite subtle about it; they’ll brush up their fingers around yours on the table, or perhaps even try to hold your hand during your date. Some are more forward, signaling a kiss at the end of your date. Just remember; it’s your comfort that matter during the date, not their desire for physical contact.